How to find a Glucose guardian (Sugar Daddy)

Hey Lovelies!!

It’s hard out here and adulting is a struggle, so recently I talked to my sister and I mentioned how I’m two seconds away from finding me a Glucose guardian. Now I know that having a sugar daddy is slightly frowned upon because when most people hear sugar daddy they think of young women getting paid by older men to basically have sex and date them. I mean yes that can be the case for some but not for all, for some it’s all about companionship. Talking to my sister I decided to do a bit of research into how one goes about finding a sugar daddy, with that I found a few interesting sites that I signed up for so that I could see what they were all about. Now please don’t look at me with those judgmental eyes I did eventually delete every profile that I created. I wanted to do my due diligence for you lovelies just in case y’all decide to one day jump on the sugar daddy band wagon. So I joined three sites and honestly they weren’t that bad and the conversation between the men I spoke to was interesting and a huge contrast from the men in my age group. Not once while I was one either of the three sites was I propositioned for sex, which I will admit I was slightly surprised about. The first site I joined was Seeking Arrangement which is free for college students. This particular site seemed pretty high class to the other ones that I came across and the sugar daddies are verified and it is apparently the number one dating site for those looking for sugar babies and sugar daddies. The second site I signed up for is for all my ladies with that wanderlust spirit; it’s called Miss Travel and as the name suggests it’s geared towards people who are looking for sugar daddies to travel the world with or who want to travel on their own and have someone else finance their trip. The last website I joined had this amazing feature called a gift wishlist where you can pick different items that range in price and put them on your wishlist for your potential sugar daddy to purchase for you; that website is Sugar Daddy Meet … now I am not trying to force this lifestyle on anyone but I did feel the need to speak on it because I have encountered so many women who have mentioned becoming a sugar baby. I do not want any of those women to go into this type of relationship blindly, I strongly suggest that those of you who are interested in a sugar daddy do your research before jumping into a relationship because it’s not for everyone. I also suggest that you set boundaries and let someone know what you are doing because there are some crazy people in this world. The key is to be smart and safe when entering into this sort of arrangement and to never allow them to degrade you. Know what you will and will not accept and do not settle for anything less. I hope that this post has helped a few of you that were on the fence about getting a glucose guardian. Stay safe and be fierce.

Xoxo

Alicia ūüíč

Let your freak flag flow

Hey lovelies!

So I’m sitting here listening to 6lack and I thinks it’s time to talk about sex, and letting your freak flag fly. Today we live in a¬†society¬†where people are a lot more¬†vocal with¬†their judgment and criticism of others that may not behave the way they deem appropriate. Especially when it comes to sex and being open about what you enjoy sexually; I believe that it’s important that everyone knows what they like when it comes to sex and pleasure. Sex is not meant to be one-sided so if you have a partner who only cares about themselves and their orgasms, it’s time for you to re-evaluate the person that you are having sex with. It’s 2018 people so you should not be dealing with selfish lovers; now it’s okay if you don’t know exactly what you like when it comes to sex, this is why I’m writing this post to let you know that it’s okay to experiment and find out what you like and what you don’t like. If you’ve never masturbated then I suggest starting there because how do you expect someone else to bring you to climax when you haven’t even yet? Also I suggest watching porn to see what appeals to you and buy a toy or two while you’re at it. Now that you’ve given yourself a little self love and did a little research, tryout what you learnt with your partner to see if that is something that you’ll truly enjoy; let your inner freak out and have fun but also remember to be safe and use protection with whoever you’re sleeping with because safety first. When I¬†¬†say¬†let your inner freak out¬†I’m not saying go completely against what you are comfortable with, for instance if¬†threesomes aren’t your thing then don’t try them and if anal isn’t your thing then leave that alone because it’s not for everyone. I’m¬†just trying to say that sex doesn’t have to be boring because life is too short for boring sex, so find your inner seductress and let her out. Find your passion and embrace the pleasure that is meant for you. Let your partner know what you like and be confident when telling them and make sure that they eat the cookie because let’s face it, it’s amazing, but remember sex is about reciprocity so if you’re not for giving head you can’t be mad if they don’t wanna go down on you; I’m not saying that it’s right for them to do that but if you aren’t¬†giving head in return you just gotta respect their pettiness. So be a freak baby and be proud about it.

Xo

Alicia